BUILDING EMOTIONAL RESILIENCE IN CHILDREN

Challenges in life are inevitable, but they don’t always have to yield negative emotional consequences. Instead, theycan be reframed as positive experiences - especially for children. Resilience is the ability to bounce back from stress, adversity, failure, challenges and even trauma. 

Rather than something that children innately have or don’t have, it’s a skill that can be nurtured and developed.

When helping children confront challenges, it’s important to be aware of your own modelled behaviour and world views. Try not to slip into the default mode of simply repeating the (possibly outdated)actions, responses and coping mechanisms of your own parents. Wherever possible, it’s great to encourage kids to use their own inner resources and creativity.

That said, there are a number of tried-and- tested tools that parents can use to assist them in guiding their children’s attitudes and behaviours in the face of stressful situations like starting school, bullying, moving home, divorce and sibling rivalry, to name just a few.

8 WAYS TO BUILD EMOTIONAL RESILIENCE IN CHILDREN


FOSTER STRONG EMOTIONAL CONNECTIONS
Kids develop coping skills within the context of caring relationships, so it’s important to spend one-on-one time with them. Put down the smartphone and focus on your child.
 
PROMOTE HEALTHY RISK-TAKING
Encourage your child to try something that nudges him or her outside of a comfort zone, but involves little to no chance of harm. This could be anything from adopting a new hobby to practising a different sport or participating in a school play.
 
RESIST THE URGE TO DICTATE SOLUTIONS:
Try not to lecture or explain. Rather, brainstorm with your child - asking questions that spark his or her creativity and can foster sound problem-solving skills.
 
IDENTIFY AND EXPRESS EMOTIONS
Teach children how to identify and express their feelings. This awareness can help them make sense of what they’re experiencing throughout their lives.
 
EMBRACE MISTAKES AS LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES
Embracing mistakes (including your own) helps to promote a growth mindset, encouraging kids to learn from where they go ‘wrong’. Wherever possible, focus on the process rather than the outcome.
 
PROMOTE OPTIMISM
Help your child to reframe negative thoughts and fears in a way that is encouraging while remaining honest and realistic.
 
PRIORITISE SLEEP, EXERCISE AND NUTRITION
Sufficient sleep, physical exercise and nutrition all play a crucial role in stress reduction and overall psychological wellbeing. 

 
DEMONSTRATE HEALTHY COPING SKILLS:
Practise deep breathing, taking a time out and other healthy coping skills when facing challenging situations of your own.

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